Admit it. You’ve heard every story your signinficant other has told at least 20 times. And now they’re telling it again. You smile, nod and pray that a life-destroying comet is heading directly for your house. Or maybe a plague of locusts. Anything that would prevent this tale from being told yet again. I get… Read More »
“Don’t wish things were easier. Wish you were better. Don’t Ask for Less Problems; Ask for More Skills.” Jim Rohn When I turned 25 I assumed all of my problems would be resolved and that my life would become easy and predictable. When I shared this misguided and fool hardy belief with my mother, her… Read More »
Remember a while back when I boldly stated:Shared victories would eliminate bedroom blahs and spark up a connection that had gone cold. I have a confession. I was wrong. The secret to a great relationship and mind blowing, soul shaking sex is difficult conversations. At minimum, twice weekly. Like most wonderful things in my life,… Read More »
All issues, drama, chaos and confusion can be traced back to the same source. A broken agreement. Somebody didn’t hold up their end of an agreement and decided to go in another direction. Most of us make agreements all day with all sorts of people. Many of these agreements are not verbalized. They remain silent,… Read More »
To all the boys who may or may not be queer. The boys picked last in sports but first for the latest in fashion, entertaining, and tasteful decorating. The boys who couldn’t catch a football but instead could clean a bathroom until it sparkles and offer serious, heartfelt care to a sick sibling. I salute… Read More »
In an effort to make sense of so much of the craziness that goes on, everybody would like a scapegoat. Someone to blame everything on. I have read a great deal of feminist literature. I love me some bell hooks and actually met and talked with her once on a subway when I lived in… Read More »